
Depression and the Holiday Season
The holiday season, particularly around Christmas, is often seen as a time of joy, celebration, and togetherness. Yet for many people, it can also be a period marked by increased stress, anxiety, and even depression. While the holidays are frequently portrayed as cheerful and carefree, the reality is more nuanced.
Approximately 38% of people report higher stress levels during the holidays, and 64% of individuals living with mental illness say their symptoms worsen during this time. Let’s explore why depression tends to spike during the holiday season, the factors that contribute to it, and practical strategies for coping.
Why Does Depression Increase During the Holidays?
1. Unrealistic Expectations and Social Pressure
- The imagery of a “perfect holiday” — filled with laughter, family gatherings, and elaborate gift-giving — sets high expectations. Many feel pressured to live up to these ideals portrayed in advertisements and social media, leading to feelings of inadequacy when their reality falls short.
- For those who have lost loved ones or are estranged from family, the contrast between the idealized holiday and their circumstances can amplify loneliness, disappointment, or sadness.
2. Loneliness and Isolation
- While the holidays are synonymous with social gatherings, they can feel isolating for those who are alone. People who live far from family, have strained relationships, or are grieving a loss may find the season particularly difficult.
- Older adults and veterans, for instance, often feel a heightened sense of loss during this time, as they reflect on loved ones who are no longer present or celebrations that can no longer be recreated.
3. Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder is a type of depression triggered by changes in seasons, often starting in the fall and continuing through winter. Shorter days and reduced sunlight disrupt circadian rhythms and decrease serotonin levels, a neurotransmitter that regulates mood.
- The holiday season coinciding with these darker months can exacerbate symptoms, adding another layer of difficulty.
4. Financial Stress
- The pressure to buy gifts, host events, and travel can create significant financial strain. Many feel anxious about spending beyond their means or ashamed if they cannot meet societal expectations around gift-giving.
- In a culture that often equates material generosity with love and affection, financial struggles can worsen feelings of inadequacy or guilt.
5. Reflection on the Past Year
- The end of the year often prompts reflection. For some, this can lead to disappointment if they feel they haven’t met personal goals or have faced setbacks. When paired with the festive atmosphere, unresolved emotions and regrets may surface.
6. Disruption of Routine
- The holidays often disrupt normal routines. Overeating, drinking more alcohol, and skipping exercise are common, all of which can negatively impact mood and mental health.
- For those who thrive on structure and predictability, the whirlwind of social obligations and changes in routine can be overwhelming, heightening stress and anxiety.
Coping Strategies for Managing Holiday Depression
1. Set Realistic Expectations
- Recognize that the “perfect holiday” is a myth. Focus on what is meaningful to you and avoid comparing your experiences with idealized portrayals in media or on social platforms.
2. Establish Boundaries
- It’s okay to say no. Overcommitting to events or spending beyond your means often leads to unnecessary stress. Setting limits on your time and finances can help reduce the emotional toll of the season.
3. Stay Connected
- Reaching out to friends, community groups, or support networks can combat feelings of isolation. If you are far from family, consider volunteering. Helping others can foster connection and purpose, lifting your spirits.
4. Practice Self-Care
- Maintain a healthy routine. Regular exercise, mindfulness, or meditation, and moderation in alcohol consumption can counteract holiday disruptions and support mental well-being.
5. Embrace or Create New Traditions
- Holidays can be painful reminders of past losses, but creating new traditions can establish a sense of joy and control. Choose activities that bring personal fulfillment rather than conforming to societal expectations.
6. Seek Professional Help
- If sadness or depression persists and interferes with daily functioning, consider seeking help from a mental health professional. Therapy, support groups, or medication may be necessary for managing severe symptoms or Seasonal Affective Disorder.
Conclusion
While the holiday season is often depicted as a time of universal joy, it’s important to acknowledge that for many, it can be a period of increased vulnerability to depression. High expectations, social isolation, financial stress, and the biological effects of shorter days all contribute to this reality.
By recognizing the emotional complexities of the season and employing strategies to manage stress, you can navigate the holidays with greater ease. Remember, it’s okay to not feel the “holiday spirit” all the time. Acknowledging your feelings and prioritizing your mental health can help make the season a bit brighter.

Even Santa can get the Blues!
In a later article we will take a more in-depth look at depression in general.
For further reading and resources on coping with depression during the holidays, see the following:
- National Institute of Mental Health: Coping with Holiday Depression
- American Psychological Association: Managing Holiday Stress
- https://www.healthpartners.com/blog/why-we-get-depressed-during-holidays/













The Harmful Grip of Cigarette Smoking
By John Turley
On October 24, 2024
In Commentary, Medicine
Addiction, Health Risks, and the Benefits of Quitting
Cigarette smoking remains one of the leading causes of preventable death worldwide. In the more than 65 years since the US Surgeon General first required health warnings to be placed on cigarette packs, significant progress has been made in reducing the rates of smoking. In 1965 about 45% of US adults were smokers and today fewer than 12% smoke on a regular basis. Youth smoking rates have also declined dramatically. In recent years fewer than 5% of high school students report smoking on a regular basis. In my high school class (1966) the smoking rate was probably closer to 30%. As encouraging as these numbers are, there is no acceptable rate of smoking, and I hope those of you who don’t smoke will pass this article on to family or friends who do.
The Power of Nicotine Addiction
Nicotine, the primary addictive substance in cigarettes, is remarkably potent. When inhaled, it travels to the brain within seconds, where it stimulates the release of dopamine, a neurotransmitter that creates a feeling of pleasure and relaxation. Over time, the brain rewires itself, craving nicotine to maintain these pleasurable effects, leading to dependency.
The addictive nature of nicotine makes quitting extremely difficult, as withdrawal symptoms, including irritability, anxiety, difficulty concentrating, and intense cravings, can deter many smokers from quitting. Nicotine also increases heart rate and blood pressure, contributing to the stress-relief paradox: although many smokers feel cigarettes help them relax, the substance actually exacerbates stress on the cardiovascular system.
Smoking can be tied to our daily routines. Some people have commonly have a cigarette with morning coffee or after meals. Other people reach for a cigarette when they’re on the telephone. Social settings and peer influence can make quitting difficult. Attending social gatherings where smoking is common can reignite cravings. A smoker who decides to quit can feel surrounded by the temptations to resume smoking.
There are a number of other factors also that make it difficult to quit smoking. There’s a lack of immediate health benefits noted. Improvements like better lung function, reduced cancer risk or long terms outcomes are not noted right away. Some smokers fear weight gain more than they fear the effects of smoking and will delay any attempts at cessation because of that. Some smokers also feel frustration because after a few days without a cigarette they think “I don’t feel any better, what’s the point?”
Health Risks: Nicotine and Smoke by-products
Cigarette smoke contains over 7,000 chemicals, many of which are toxic. Among these are tar, carbon monoxide, formaldehyde, and heavy metals like cadmium and lead. Some chemicals are carcinogens, contributing to the development of cancer, while others damage tissues and organs in less visible but no less harmful ways.
The Benefits of Quitting Smoking
It’s never too late to quit smoking, and the benefits begin almost immediately after quitting.
The Deceptive Appeal of Vaping
Unfortunately, the rise of e-cigarettes, also known as vaping, has emerged as an alternative to smoking among many people. E-cigarettes deliver nicotine through vapor rather than smoke. While they eliminate some of the harmful byproducts like tar and carbon monoxide, vaping is not without risks. Some vaping products contain toxic materials not contained in tobacco. Especially custom or self-blended cartridges for vape pens that may have carcinogenic or otherwise harmful additives not readily obvious to the user. Unfortunately, many adolescents and young adults who have never smoked cigarettes have developed a nicotine addiction through e-cigarette use.
Conclusion
There is no safe level of use of tobacco or other forms of nicotine. Quitting smoking improves quality of life, reducing the frequency of respiratory infections and improving overall energy levels. For long-time smokers, the prospect of reversing years of damage may seem daunting, but research consistently shows that health outcomes improve at any point, even decades after quitting. If I could give my smoking patients only one piece of medical advice it would be: “Quit smoking and quit now”. And I know how hard it is. I quit smoking 53 years ago and for many years afterwards it remained a daily struggle. But eventually, with the help and support of my family I was able to get past my tobacco cravings.